Well first of all, it is most wise to NOT take emotional decisions, target have them be decisions based on objective information and logic.
Feelings aren't made to take the upper hand in decisions, sure they have a helping role but essentially we have been granted with a 'logic' evidence based system to make decisions with.
So it's quite normal that we allow ourselves to get so overwhelmed to the extent that nothing really matters other than how you feel about something and taking rash decisions in accordance.
Today I've done the same... Unfortunately
I despise emotional decision days cuz they're much harder to fix...however with a little effort their effects can be ameliorated
First one must spend time alone and figure out the LOGICAL reasons why they took such a decision
Second one must spend time to find out how they could have misunderstood or read the signs wrongly or misunderstood the person (this is tough)
Third one must evaluate whether their decision will make conditions better for YOU and for the person involved...and why?
Fourth eventually you must break the silence and communicate your decision..have a sound explanation for it...find sound justification for it (if it's justifiable)
If not then you gotta find a way to apologize
Hmmmm that's all my input for now
As for my dilemma, I have found my logic and reason and on my way finalizing it.
I am an agreeable person most of the time but when it comes to some issues I have, I can become the bitchest, nastiest creature alive.
Inshaallah all will be well in the end
See you around folks :)
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